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03 June, 2010

The Serenity Prayer

Miranda (Ah King) shared The Serenity Prayer in yesterday's posting. Indeed, it's one of my favorite quote, especially the part of "the wisdom to know the difference". With a special note that Wikipedia's content may not be accurate and subject to any kind of challenge. I quote and unquote the below for your reference. It's often that I prefer to expand my thinking on a subject as it often brings new dimensions and view points on a same subject that we thought we know. Case-In-Point, despite I have known this Serenity Prayer for long, after reading below, I still get some new and fresh thoughts on the content of the prayer, not to mention if Dr Reinhold Niebuhr was indeed the author of this Serenity Prayer. (*It doesn't really matter to me as the key is to grasp the meaning of the prayer!)

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The Serenity Prayer
The earliest known version of the prayer, from 1937, has been found in a Christian student newsletter ("The Intercollegian and Far Horizons"), which claimed to reprint the prayer from an earlier edition of the newsletter, and attributes the prayer to Niebuhr in this form:
"Father, give us courage to change what must be altered, serenity to accept what cannot be helped, and the insight to know the one from the other."

The most popular version, whose authorship is unknown, reads:
"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can change, And wisdom to know the difference."

The longest version has these additional lines:
"Living one day at a time; Enjoying one moment at a time; Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace; Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it; Trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His Will; That I may be reasonably happy in this life and supremely happy with Him Forever in the next. Amen.

The prayer is frequently used by Alcoholics Anonymous, which uses it in a slightly different form. An Alcoholics Anonymous website reports: "What is undisputed is the claim of authorship by the theologian Dr. Rheinhold [sic] Niebuhr, who recounted to interviewers on several occasions that he had written the prayer as a 'tag line' to a sermon he had delivered on Practical Christianity. Yet even Dr. Niebuhr added at least a touch of doubt to his claim when he told one interviewer, 'Of course, it may have been spooking around for years, even centuries, but I don't think so. I honestly do believe that I wrote it myself.'"

His claim to authorship was supported in detail by his daughter, Elisabeth Sifton, in The Serenity Prayer (2003), where she said that her father first wrote it in 1943. In 2008, Yale Book of Quotations editor Fred R. Shapiro cast doubt on Niebuhr's claim of authorship. He demonstrated the prayer was in circulation by 1936 but not attributed to Niebuhr until 1942. However, he acknowledged the possibility that Niebuhr introduced the prayer by the mid-1930s in an unpublished or private setting. Sifton, in a response published with Shapiro's article, argues that the prayer must have come from one of the tradition's most gifted practitioners, which she believes could only be her father. In 2009, Duke University librarian Stephen Goranson unearthed the copy of the prayer from 1937 (above). In response to this finding, Shapiro conceded that "The new evidence does not prove that Reinhold Niebuhr wrote [the prayer], but it does significantly improve the likelihood that he was the originator."

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Karl Paul Reinhold Niebuhr (June 21, 1892 – June 1, 1971)


4 comments:

  1. Yes,indeed,it is a beautiful prayer!

    Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
    Love to read your blog!

    Your friend,
    Estherino

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  2. Dear Estherino,

    Thank you and you remind me the song ... "take my breath away ... ..."! Hahahah!

    Yours, Matthew

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  3. The Comment below might offend someone 'cos I have NO Religion!!! Therefore, you might have to excuse my language and thoughts...

    I remember for the last couple months during Matt's case, I heard so many stories from him and that's a very inspiring one to share with:
    He told me that in the begining of getting back& forth to the hosiptal with the community car-pulls... There's a Single Man coming from the Island all by himself & was picked-up from the YVR airport to check-in the hosiptal alone... He just treated the trip like checking-in a Resort instead... The message is: That'll be very nice if this man could have some companionship with him... But the cruel fact is: He is all by himself and he just have to do it with and/or without any assistances... He chose to believe that he can do it all-by-himself!!! What if we can simply believe we can do it and do it with and/or without any helps from others... You still can do it, like this man!!! I always believe that if you can trust yourself and believe in yourself that you can do it, your success rate will be (at least) 50% higher than those doesn't believe in himself/herself... That's no such thing in Life that we cannot do/live without others!!! It's just all on your mind and I'll say "Just Do It!!! Bless you all that believe in God 'cos that's a BIG BIG BONUS for all of you!!! @..@

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  4. The Main Reason why I wrote the above comments is: I've been hearing a lot of stories from Matt that a lot of patients might not believe in themselves and choose to give-up... As well as their family members and/or friends... The point is if they don't believe in themselves and try to cop with the illness... NOBODY can do it for them!!! @..@

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